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Jessie's diary. Chapter 23 – Romania here we come

Romania here we come So I was very excited when Mistress messaged me to say She was headed to Bucharest to film with the House of Sinn and Mistress Ezada Sinn and I was required to accompany Her on Her trip to film some content with Her while there.   Like Mistress Sarah, Mistress Ezada is internationally renowned in the world of Female Supremacy and I was looking forward to helping create some awesome content with both Mistresses The trip coincided closely with Mistress’ 30 th Birthday so it was going to be fantastic to spend some extended quality time with Her and celebrate Her Birthday together Flights booked we set off to Bucharest one sunny Monday morning via Frankfurt for the week. Neither of us had been to Romania or Bucharest before so we were both excited to see the city and meet Mistress Ezada. Our first night we were taken by Mistress Ezada into Bucharest for a meal at the city’s oldest and most famous restaurant – traditional Romanian cuisine in the most i...

Jessie's diary, Chapter 21 - If you own it - Put a ring on it

A long time cumming (but not for long..) As many of Mistress Sarah’s keen followers may recall from Her excellent blog on the subject of chastity earlier this year (well worth a read on Her website) Mistress has been “exploring” the idea transitioning from my current state of mental chastity (ie with with no physical restrictions of a cage) to something a l ittle more physical.   Mistress has over the years found the maintenance of chastity cages a bit of a frustration (they can be difficult to find the right fit, they can be removed by untrustworthy slaves etc) I would also note that Mistress Sarah has been extremely choosy over the years about taking Personal slaves into Her life, and when She does She expects high levels of devotion to Her.  Accordingly when it comes to the matter of physical chastity Mistress has a preference for something that requires a little bit more dedication than a standard chastity cage...

Body shaming in kink

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Hi all. :) BODY SHAMING So this is something I talk about quite regularly with friends/family etc but not a topic I thought I'd be blogging about. Why? Probably because somewhere within myself I still feel in one of those awful Domme boxes that I wrote about a few months ago  Expectations of a Domme . I received an email last week from someone looking to book a session which went along the lines of this.. " I've been wanting to book a session with you for quite some time now Mistress but I was really put off by the figure you have now. I preferred your smaller frame" Not only was I admittedly upset by this comment but I was more enraged by the sheer disregard of my feelings. HOW DARE HE JUDGE ME IN THIS WAY! I felt so offended not only because my body image had been scrutinised but felt that my ability to conduct a session was somehow thought off as a lower standard just because I've gained a bit of beef! I mean why would you even go to the bother and...

Jessie's diary, Chapter 20 – Diary of a “lucky” slave

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Jessie Chapter 20 – Diary of a “lucky” slave Well its been a while since my last blog and a couple of folks have kindly asked when there might be another installment – so just for you …. I thought I’d catch up on what Mistress Sarah & I have been up to recently – and also try and give a little insight into the life of a personal “lucky” slave and what that entails. Firstly may I take the opportunity to say now, and I know pretty much most personal slaves out there will agree with me when they object to the phrase “lucky slave”. There is no such thing, there are only privileged slaves who have shown something in their dedication to their respective Mistresses that has been recognised by this very special and rewarding status. Rant over lol Many of Mistress Sarah’s regular followers will be very much aware that She has decided to focus more on producing and releasing fetish / BDSM videos in future. Anyone who has either filmed with Mistress Sarah or any other Mistress will ...

Expectation of a Domme

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                                                              Expectations of a Domme When I started Domming 5 years ago I was eager to fit into a box. We call it the Domme box. You must stay in this box and never allow anyone to see you come out of it. You have an image to maintain and if you were to be seen acting outwith your persona you've created you would be unsuccessful and fail, end off.  Can you imagine having to act a certain way day in day out with a ton of pressure on you to try maintain this online character? It's bloody hard and I take My hat off to those Dommes who have managed to do it for so long. Don't get me wrong I completely understand why it is important. We portray an image and it's that image that men fall for. I mean guys have a certain expectation of how we live or more to the point how we ...

Jessie’s Diary, Chapter 19 - Resetting the D/s – Punishment Time

Jessie’s Diary, Chapter 19 - Resetting the D/s – Punishment Time Returning Home So it had to come – getting back to normal life after the incredible high of the holiday with Mistress Sarah.  Before the holiday we both thought I would struggle the most – I joked about setting the world record for “sub-drop” after spending so long in the company of my Mistress.  Fellow devoted slaves will be all too aware of the down you can get after just spending 1 or 2 intense hours with your Mistress in session, never mind the best part of 2 weeks. I had even requested if Mistress could visit in the week we got back as I thought I would be really struggling getting back into normal life and considerate as She always is with Her slaves She readily agreed to my request which reassured me the first week back might not be too painful (emotionally anyway lol). Mistress was struggling too, adapting to life back home especially amid the terrible events occurring at the time (Mcr & Lond...